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Living together yet feeling apart? You're not alone—closeness isn't just about proximity
Traditional forms of therapy often miss the mark, glossing over deeper issues instead of closing the emotional distance.
Silent meals and joyless days gradually erect walls of resentment. Ignore the signs, and risk the slow decay of your relationship
"Todd's approach gives actual tools and solutions and our communication is opening up again. We can take what we’ve learned and use it for the rest of our lives. And that's a huge difference from typical counseling programs"
After 22 years together, Wendy and John S. felt more like business partners than life partners. Focused on daily tasks and parenting, they felt disconnected. Past marriage counseling kept things civil but didn’t close the distance.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they discovered each other’s personality styles which gave them empathy for each other’s way of being. They started spending meaningful time together and through weekly check-ins, rebuilding trust and deepening their connection.
Wendy and John now feel joyful being with each other. They built a safe space to tackle big concerns together. Instead of feeling stuck, they find solutions that strengthen their bond.
Traditional couples therapy often targets symptoms rather than the underlying dynamics, offering generic advice that fails to address the deeper issues unique to each relationship.
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Most traditional therapies only skim the surface, leaving underlying issues untouched. Our program dives deeper, using insights from the Enneagram to identify and tackle the emotional habits that push partners apart.
Right from the start, our approach changes how you interact. By exploring the unique dynamics between you and your partner, we provide practical tools that help shift everyday interactions from distant to deeply connected.
Consider what unresolved issues could mean — more silent dinners, fewer laughs, growing resentment. These aren't just minor discomforts; they tear apart the fabric of your relationship. We help you spot these signs early to prevent fallout before it starts.
"People talk about things being life-changing, and that's almost a cliche, but I feel like I found life. I feel like we found a way to be happy."
Dorry and Harry fell in love with each other later in life, each with established routines and preferences. In moving in together, however, neither wanted to change for the other, leaving Dorry feeling isolated and Harry feeling restricted
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they rediscovered what brought them together. With a new appreciation for each other’s perspectives, they learned to create "our way" instead of "his way" or "her way."
Now, Dorry and Harry enjoy a balanced life together. They share joys and struggles while maintaining time and space for themselves, allowing them to grow as a couple and as individuals.
"We have been happier and more at peace than we have in many, many years thanks to Todd!"
Michael thought Jan never did things “right,” while Jan felt Michael was too demanding. Over time, they drifted into separate lives under the same roof. But a health scare made them realize how much they still needed each other.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they each committed to personal growth. Michael learned to be more patient and supportive, while Jan focused on building confidence and expressing her needs. With new respect for each other, they found ways to communicate openly and rebuild a partnership rooted in empathy and understanding.
Now, Michael and Jan feel like partners again. They support each other’s needs, share activities, and find comfort in knowing they’re truly there for one another. Their love has a fresh start, and they cherish each moment together.
"We were getting the value in one session from him that it was taking four or five with a therapist."
After sending their youngest off to college, Julie and Jim found themselves staring across the dinner table with nothing to say. Years spent focused on parenting and careers left them feeling like strangers.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, Julie and Jim rediscovered what had first drawn them together. They learned to communicate in ways that truly resonated and created a safe space for real conversation.
Now, Julie and Jim have rediscovered the joy of being together, sharing plans for new adventures, exploring hobbies side-by-side, and savoring this beautiful new chapter. Every dinner feels like a first date, and they’re falling in love with each other all over again.
"Working with Todd gave us tools for working on our relationship and for taking responsibility for our personal growth. He really helped us turn things around."
Rochelle and Rob found themselves worlds apart, both politically and emotionally. Resentment simmered beneath the surface, and a near-infidelity had damaged trust. They couldn’t find a way back to one another.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they spent time understanding each other’s perspectives and rebuilding trust. Gaining insight into their personality differences helped them communicate and work together, despite ongoing differences.
Today, Rochelle and Rob feel like true partners. They know how to support each other with respect without having to agree on everything, and they’ve built trust that allows them to be honest and open. Their relationship is now rooted in understanding and mutual appreciation.
"We had done some therapy before but I wanted us to do more than just cope. You showed us a way, and the improvements and growth we've made — the feeling of hope — is mind-blowing."
Lisa and Terry felt like arguing was the only thing they did together. Counseling had only shown them how far apart they’d grown. They wondered if the best years were behind them and if it was time to move on.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they gained insight into the “why” behind their needs and reactions—and learned to understand each other’s, too. Realizing they wanted the same things, they found the courage to give their marriage another chance, this time with tools for productive communication and problem-solving.
Today, Lisa and Terry still have their differences, but fighting is no longer all they do together. Date nights, thoughtful notes, and intentional conversations are helping them build the relationship they both want. Their love feels renewed, and they’re finding joy in each other once more.
"This is no cookie-cutter approach. Instead, he worked with us to find tools that help because they are unique to us."
Tom constantly worried about money and felt unable to speak up, often overshadowed by Sarah’s strong personality. Meanwhile, Sarah was tired of being the one in charge of everything and felt drained by Tom’s endless worry.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, Tom gained the confidence to assert himself, and Sarah learned to step back and give him room. Together, they found ways to ease Tom’s worries, letting Sarah feel more at peace. They also rediscovered the deep connection that had kept them together over the years.
Now, Tom and Sarah share responsibilities with mutual respect. They support each other’s needs and have rekindled the love and connection they feared was fading. They face life as true partners, strengthened by understanding and balance.
With over two decades of experience in counseling, coaching and psychology, I’m devoted to helping couples navigate the challenges of their relationships and find lasting fulfillment.
Instead of just patching up arguments, our program helps you and your partner truly understand and move past repeated disagreements. This opens the door to more peace and better teamwork in your relationship.
Learn about each other’s quirks and needs in a way that deepens your empathy and cooperation. Our personalized insights and tools make it easier to support each other through ups and downs.
Get to the heart of what’s been keeping you apart and start turning things around. With our guidance, you’ll find new ways to connect and strengthen your bond, making every day better together.
We go beyond just addressing communication problems. Our program uniquely integrates the Enneagram to deeply explore underlying psychological dynamics. By including both joint and individual sessions, it fosters personal growth alongside relationship improvement, providing a more comprehensive approach than conventional therapy.
The Enneagram offers detailed insights into each partner's personality, revealing core patterns of motivations, fears, and behaviors. These insights enhance empathy, prevent misunderstandings , and directly address the roots of recurring conflicts, paving the way for deeper connections and more satisfying interactions.
Even if only one partner participates, the program can still be beneficial. Individual growth can positively impact the relationship dynamics and may inspire the other partner to engage once they notice positive changes.
Absolutely. Our methods are designed to address deep-rooted issues and restore hope. Our approach has proven effective regardless of the duration of your struggles. By focusing on foundational problems, the program helps couples attain lasting improvements.
Active participation and openness to change are crucial. This involves engaging fully in sessions, completing all assigned exercises, and maintaining open communication about your experiences and challenges. Change isn’t always easy, but with active participation, it’s possible.
We use relationship surveys, self-reflection exercises, and regular check-ins to measure your growth, adapting the program to your evolving needs to ensure maximum effectiveness.
Yes, post-program, you'll have access to continued learning materials, follow-up sessions, all designed to help you sustain and build upon the improvements made during the program.
Your relationship is unique. Our coaching is highly personalized, adapted to fit the specific dynamics and growth goals of your relationship. We tailor strategies and exercises to meet your unique needs, ensuring that the program's impact is as effective and relevant as possible.
